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Spanking in Relationships, Page 6
Once these questions have been answered to JB's satisfaction, he will begin spanking, usually with his hand. I am spanked hard and fast,
with no breaks, until I am really begging and squirming. Sometimes, if he thinks he's not making enough of an impression, he will begin
using a paddle or the bathbrush at some point here. But whatever implement is or is not used, this phase of the spanking does not stop
until I am close to "losing it." How long this is, how hard he needs to spank to get me to this point, though depends on many factors,
including how sorry I was before he started and what time of the month it is.
At this point, he will stop spanking for a while, and we "talk" about what I've done, why I'm there, and why I believe it won't happen again in the future. Depending on infraction, (telling a lie, for example, being MUCH worse than "sass") a "phase two" will begin. For a minor infraction, again such as a fresh mouth, he might lecture briefly, then pick up the implement and give me a second, very hard spanking (without ever letting me off his lap) until I am pleading, and begging, and promising desperately and until my backside is at least very bright red and showing the signs of at least a few marks. For a more serious infraction, like a fib to someone else, I might be put in the corner for 5-10 minutes, then get the second spanking. For a really serious infraction, like a lie to him, after the second spanking, I would probably have a second break, during which I would write an essay about why I KNOW this will never happen again, and then go back over his knee again, for a third spanking with (most likely) a cane or switch, our most severe implements. On one occasion I was sent to cut the switch that was to be used during the third spanking after the second.
JB finds that this method of "breaks" and then spanking again on an already tender bottom is the most effective way to inflict a fair amount of "discomfort" (JB's euphemism reminds me a little of childbirth classes!) without leaving excessive bruising or marks.
Fifth, the spanking is over. JB and I generally cuddle but do not have sex after a punishment spanking. I am typically too sore to want to sit on his lap, and will kneel on the floor next to his legs and cry for awhile, while he strokes my hair and talks to me. I almost never cry during a real spanking, but will cry afterwards. Other couples choose to maintain the punishment through a further correction, such as sending her to bed with a hot bottom and no comforting. It's a personal choice.
At this point, he will stop spanking for a while, and we "talk" about what I've done, why I'm there, and why I believe it won't happen again in the future. Depending on infraction, (telling a lie, for example, being MUCH worse than "sass") a "phase two" will begin. For a minor infraction, again such as a fresh mouth, he might lecture briefly, then pick up the implement and give me a second, very hard spanking (without ever letting me off his lap) until I am pleading, and begging, and promising desperately and until my backside is at least very bright red and showing the signs of at least a few marks. For a more serious infraction, like a fib to someone else, I might be put in the corner for 5-10 minutes, then get the second spanking. For a really serious infraction, like a lie to him, after the second spanking, I would probably have a second break, during which I would write an essay about why I KNOW this will never happen again, and then go back over his knee again, for a third spanking with (most likely) a cane or switch, our most severe implements. On one occasion I was sent to cut the switch that was to be used during the third spanking after the second.
JB finds that this method of "breaks" and then spanking again on an already tender bottom is the most effective way to inflict a fair amount of "discomfort" (JB's euphemism reminds me a little of childbirth classes!) without leaving excessive bruising or marks.
Fifth, the spanking is over. JB and I generally cuddle but do not have sex after a punishment spanking. I am typically too sore to want to sit on his lap, and will kneel on the floor next to his legs and cry for awhile, while he strokes my hair and talks to me. I almost never cry during a real spanking, but will cry afterwards. Other couples choose to maintain the punishment through a further correction, such as sending her to bed with a hot bottom and no comforting. It's a personal choice.
Article courtesy of Bethany's Woodshed